Giving Thanks: 2008

by Amber on November 25, 2008

The amazing thing about the web is that your friends come from everywhere. Some you don’t even get a chance to meet. And in the spirit of Thanksgiving and before we all get wrapped up in the hubub, I wanted to spend a moment and say thanks to a few people that have touched me this year via these crazy interwebs. So here we go, in no particular order:

Mack Collier: For reminding me that chivalry is not dead, and that nice guys can still finish first. You’re one of the good eggs, Mack. Never change who you are. Thank you for being my friend.

Beth Harte: For unabashedly sharing her passion, and for always encouraging me never to hide my own. Beth, you’re someone that I hope I know and share life with for years to come.

Tim Jackson: For teaching me yet again that perseverance triumphs, and for being gentle and kind of spirit. There are few people who embrace and appreciate subtle beauty in the world, and I feel truly blessed to occasionally share the world through your eyes.

Frank Martin: You’ve shown me what generosity, humor, and compassion look like all wrapped up in a handsome package. You encouraged me and believed in me from the beginning, and I can’t tell you how grateful I am for that.

Pamela Martin: For letting us all have a bit of Frank, and for giving me endless amounts of laughter. Your ability to connect viscerally with people is profound, and I can’t wait for the next opportunity we have to cause a little mayhem together.

Jason Falls: Every conversation with you is eye-opening, and few people on the planet can elicit the unadulterated laughter that you do. For all the friendship, understanding, hilarity, and all that’s to come, I thank you.

Chris Brogan: Talent, generosity, brilliance and a searing wit all balled up in a guy who not only is amazingly good at what he does, but has the humility and ability to connect with people like few others I know. Cheers to always having copious junk monkeys, and never forget Step 1.

Geoff Livingston: Your personal brand is really high on my list. You’ve always told me to stay true to myself, and somehow, I keep listening. Thanks for that. Personal brand or no, I’m proud to call you my friend.

Liz Strauss: If I were building barns, I’d want you with me. Not only do you bring light and happiness wherever you go, but your desire to lift up those around you is an example that everyone needs to see.

Connie Reece: Pink boa or not, you are beyond fabulous. Everyone needs a Connie. I can’t tell you how many times you’ve brought me perspective that I just wouldn’t have otherwise found. Thank you for giving so much of yourself for others, always.

Kellye Crane: Talk about an inspiration! Every moment I’ve been terrified of doing this solo gig, you’ve been proof positive that not only can it be done, it can be done with style and poise. I can’t wait for the chance to share a cocktail and toast your success.

Sonny Gill: You’ve given me a whole new appreciation for Armani. I blame you for sucking me back into fantasy football this year, but getting to know you as a friend and colleague has been worth it. Plus, you let me beat up on the boys. That’s been fun.

Deb Robison: Just when I think you’re this delicate flower, you make me spit wine on my computer screen with a joke that I thought only I could appreciate. And what a razor sharp mind you have. Thank you for the hijinx. Just wait until we get together in person. Heh.

Tara Whittle: I’ve missed you since I’ve been so absent from Plurk, but I blame you for the money I spent on purple eyeshadow. You are so crazy smart, and incredibly warm and giving. I’m so glad we’ve connected.

Donna Tocci: I’ve missed you on Plurk, too. But you have always had a nanner for me when I needed one, and I can’t imagine how to return that favor now that my karma doesn’t allow me any. :) I was so excited to meet you, but it was far too short. Let’s be sure that the next time is longer.

Ann Handley: Word snobs, unite. I’m so inspired by your writing and your sense of humor. You have a talent, Ann. Plus, you crack me the hell up. Thanks for not only the professional opportunities, but for adding color and humanity to my crazy world.

Gavin Heaton: I will always remember how totally floored I was the first time you left a comment on my piddly little blog. You too regularly stitch me up with laughter, and often you probably don’t even know it. One of these days, I’m going to make it down under and thank you in person.

Jennifer Laycock: You’ve been another person that constantly amazes me with your generosity of spirit and commitment to do well by the people in your world. Thank you, for your encouragement in my professional adventures, but also for being someone that exemplifies the good in people.

David Alston: How fortunate am I that I get to call you my client AND my friend? I hope the latter will long outlast the former. We’re gonna kick some tail together, you know. And maybe do some Johnny and June cash renditions if I have enough margaritas.

Christina Kerley: Click My Junk, lady. You are profoundly amazing and you inspire me. That is all.

Gennefer Snowfield: How can I not love someone who loves jelly? Aside from that, you make me work my brain, and you understand some of the crazy shit that results. It’s always gratifying to meet a kindred spirit across the web, and I’m super glad I met you.

There are so many of you, and I’m sure I’ve missed someone, somewhere. And there are many of you that I’m just getting to know: Shannon Paul, Dave Mullen, Miguel Cano, Amber Tardiff, Olivier Blanchard, CC Chapman, Justin Cresswell, Lucretia Pruitt, Scott Parks, Katie Morse, Valeria Maltoni, Steve Woodruff, Lisa Hoffmann, Ken Burbary, Leigh Duncan-Durst, Cara Kiethley. And the dozens of people who keep showing up in my crazy universe, day in and day out, taxing my brain and expanding my mind and restoring my faith in the fact that connections between people are real, and good.

For those of you I have yet to get to know, let 2009 be the year when I count you too among my friends, and give you something worthwhile in return.

It’s your impact on people’s lives, including mine, that makes a big, fat, outrageous difference. You’ve blessed me. Thank you.

Photo Credit: carbonnyc

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1

Kevin Fjelsted 11.25.08 at 3:11 am

Amber! What an incredible testimony to the lives that you touch!!

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mack collier 11.25.08 at 3:12 am

What amazes me is that I have met almost everyone on your list, and consider them all friends as well.

And I am so thankful for have met you this year Amber. I am a better person because of your friendship, and a much happier one.

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Jim Hoff 11.25.08 at 3:12 am

What a great idea, Amber. A very nice gesture and clearly heartfelt, as you have something to say about each person. That’s a terrific list of folks, all of whom are just as happy to have you floating around their universe, I’m sure.

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Frank Martin 11.25.08 at 3:13 am

Simply beautiful. Love to you from @pamelamartin and me. :-)

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Geoff Livingston 11.25.08 at 3:38 am

You are a good woman, Amber, and you show me never to dismiss people on Twitter. You never know where your next best blogging friend may come from.

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Gavin Heaton 11.25.08 at 6:16 am

You are so generous, Amber! Isn’t it amazing the relationships that can form in a short period of time? I love what you say - “connections between people are real and good”. That’s the heart of it. Oh, and drinking too. But then, you know that already ;)

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Michelle Yogis 11.25.08 at 8:20 am

By writing this you have strengthened my resolve to ‘keep on tweeting!’ I haven’t been following anybody for mor tan a week yet…but I am starting to understand the value of Twitter! People like you are great!

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David Alston 11.25.08 at 12:28 pm

June,

No need to end that first sentence with a question - as if you doubted. :) Really glad you decided to put up with my disorganization and wild goose chases to team up on some really cool stuff. It’s totally awesome working with you because you totally get the space and what a client needs with Vulcan mind-meld accuracy. Truly an amazing talent. And working with a friend with a wicked sense of humor and who totally allows a person to be themselves is a great bonus to boot. We’ll have to see how we can arrange to attend a social media meetup in Jackson so we can sing the duet.

Johnny C.

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Ann Handley 11.25.08 at 1:29 pm

First, ANOTHER Amber blog! Hooray!

Second, what an AMAZING list of people… and I dig every one of them as much as you do. (Except Tim Jackson, who really deserves his own love category….)

You are a fine writer in your own right, Amber, and a very cool person, to boot. It’s been an honor and a pleasure to get to know you this year. (…and 2009 is looking pretty fun, too!)

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Steve Woodruff 11.25.08 at 2:39 pm

Amber, it’s been a pleasure interacting in this virtual space with you all year. No doubt, we’ll meet in real life soon. Hopefully that won’t cause you to cross me off your list…;>}

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Ken Burbary 11.25.08 at 3:59 pm

What a gesture on your part! You’re too kind. I’m honored and flattered to be included, but most importantly grateful that we’ve connected. You’re a source of continuous knowledge and wisdom. I’m thankful to call you friend and look forward to watching your star rise even higher in 2009. The impact YOU are having on my life is the big, fat, outrageous difference. Thank you Amber & Happy Thanksgiving!

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CK 11.25.08 at 5:19 pm

Thank you for such kind words… and for celebrating so many. I’m both proud and humbled by the people I’ve met now that the world has gotten smaller; these relationships are precious to me and really give me tons more reasons to give thanks.

And I feel good knowing people like you are out there letting others know the true value in using these tools–we can never have enough real people spreading that message.

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Joanna Van Vleck 11.25.08 at 7:18 pm

I look forward to knowing you in 2009. What a wonderful gift to all. Gratitude is the key to relationships. Thank you for sharing yours!!!

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Kellye Crane 11.25.08 at 7:30 pm

My Mom used to tell me, “to have a friend, you must first be a friend.” That expression suits you perfectly, Amber, since you are generous without reservation to one and all. You have a true gift for bringing out the best in people, and I know I’m better for knowing you. And of course, you’re also a hoot! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!

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Leslie Banks 11.25.08 at 7:48 pm

“Some Johnny and June Cash renditions?” Now this, I’ve got to see. This is a great way to give tthanks. It’s the people in our lives that make the difference.

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Pam Martin 11.25.08 at 8:04 pm

I’m all for social media and making digital connections- but the connections I cherish the most are the human ones where you get to share good times, laugh with each other and just be in someone else’s space for a while. Meeting you was such an unexpected joy and bonus from the universe.

Your generous, kick-ass spirit is both awe- and personally- inspiring. Mayhem will be made, men will be embarrassed.

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Sonny Gill 11.25.08 at 8:49 pm

Hey, I knew you were gonna be fun the minute I saw your fantasy football team name ;)

Honestly, it’s been great getting to know you this past year (along with many of the other fine ppl on this list) and am honored you feel the same way. These lasting relationships go further than just business but into true friends that are always there for you no matter what (I know this first hand).

Best to you and your sassy, confident, and trouble-makin’ self :)

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Tim Jackson 11.25.08 at 8:52 pm

Ah jeez… I’m gonna get all misty-eyed now. Damn these Piscean sensibilities and emotions!

What an incredible list there. Some of the people above are some of my most treasured friends. I too feel blessed to know them all as much as you do… and I feel blessed to know you.

And when Hadley is sober, she’s incredible… I agree. (Ann, you’re killing me… thank you.)

Enjoy the turkey on Thursday… I don’t know what I’ll be eating in Taiwan on turkey day, but maybe they’ll give us some turkey on the plane. It could happen.

Thank you for the very kind words my friend.

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David Mullen 11.25.08 at 9:05 pm

What a kind gesture. I wholeheartedly believe we collectively don’t stop to say “thanks” often enough. I get frustrated every year in November because I feel like we as a culture revel in Halloween (candy for ME) and go straight to focusing on Christmas (presents for ME). We almost skip right past Thanksgiving.

And thanks for including me on the list of folks you’re getting to know. I’ve *very* much enjoyed starting friendships with you and many others. This is why the InterWeb is so amazing to me. It takes a world that is far and wide in distance and shrinks it down to such a small scale that one-to-one, human friendships can happen despite the incredible number of miles that may physically lie between folks like you and me who wouldn’t have a clue that the other exists otherwise.

That truth captures me and makes me think that all these wonderful gadgets, widgets, apps and other tools may seem shiny and new, but their real power lies in serving as the platform for the development of something old - relationships. That’s why I think Mack Collier hits the nail on the head when he says not to focus on the tools, but on the connections that the tools facilitate.

I’m thankful for you, my friend, and I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday.

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HJArmstrong 11.25.08 at 9:34 pm

Wow, Amber. Beautifully written and a wonderful way to honor them. These great people are so lucky to have you as a friend too! Hope you have a great holiday.

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olivier blanchard 11.26.08 at 12:02 am

Yay! Rightbackatcha, Amber. :)

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Beth Harte 11.26.08 at 3:36 pm

Amber, what a wonderful post! You have such a beautiful way with words and sentiments. I, too, am so thankful that we met. You were one of the first people that ever really talked to me on Twitter (regretting that yet?!) and for that I am grateful.

I am also proud to say that a lot of the people on your list I can call my friends too…and mainly because of you. You know how to build a community, that’s for damn sure! Now, I only ask, when you write a book that makes the NYT bestseller list, remember the little people (um, me, ’cause I’ll be wanting an autograph and photo!). LOL! :) And thank you for always being there for me.

All the best to you, your sweet girl Abby, and your family this Thanksgiving season.

P.S. I REALLY want to see the Johnny/June duo in Austin…it’s an appropriate setting, don’t you think? ;-)

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Mark Dykeman 11.26.08 at 11:24 pm

Really thoughtful post you’ve written - nicely done

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Connie Reece 11.30.08 at 2:45 am

As usual, I’m late to the party. (It’s the boa. I keep tripping over the darn thing.)

Getting to know you has been a delight. I knew from our late-night chats on Plurk that we had forged a genuine connection. The opportunity to spend time with you (and several of the aforementioned malcontents, I mean — okay, I probably do mean malcontents but in a good kind of way) was priceless.

I love your spitfire and your openness and the way you just come right out and say the things I’m thinking but self-censor. (I still live in mortal fear of a whoopin’ from my mama.) And I’m jealous of those mad curls that suit you perfectly. Oh, and your boots — or is that Beth? ;-)

Can’t wait till you get down here to Texas and we get to spend some additional time together. Thanks for including me in your list. I’m thankful for your friendship.

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Connie Reece 11.30.08 at 2:47 am

P.S. I am all over that June and Johnny thing. We can make that happen at SxSW — I’ll find a guitarist.

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